The full moon of December is called the Cold Moon in reference to the cold temperatures characteristic of this time of year. It is also sometimes called the Frost Moon, Winter Moon, and Long Night Moon. It occurs close to the winter solstice, the shortest day of the year. This is a time for quiet reflection, introspection, rest and renewal. … For the Cold Moon Esbat (whether in a group or alone), focus on your mental power, intuition, transformation, devotion, joy, and peace. Use the light of the Cold Moon to draw down its peacefulness during this most chaotic time of year. … To celebrate the Cold Moon, prepare an altar or table with herbs like elder, cedarwood, clove, frankincense, juniper, myrrh, cinnamon sticks, nutmeg, peppermint leaf, marshmallow root, red beet root, and pine twigs and needles. Decorate with the colors silver, gold, white, black, and evergreen, stag antlers, pinecones, and poinsettia flowers. Gather Cold Moon Incense, Anointing Oil, several white candles, and clear quartz, moonstone, garnet, and obsidian crystals. When the Cold Moon is in clear view, preferably at twilight, start by turning off everything with a screen including cell phones, computers, tablets, televisions, etc. Find an actual book to read, puzzle to put together, pastries to bake, or a tech free game or activity that can be done either alone or with family and friends. Dim the lights and sit comfortably, wrapped in a warm blanket or shawl. Cast a salt circle, sprinkle it and the items within it with Purification Herbal Salt Water, and ask the gods to be with you and watch over you. Spread the herbs and crystals around your candles and anoint them with your oil. Light your incense. Then light your candles while visualizing your intent. Meditate upon the flames while letting go of all your worries and responsibilities. Take several deep breaths, relax, and imagine all of your cares and mind clutter floating out of you. Ask the universe, Gods, Goddesses, or your higher power to bless you. When ready, take a candle outside and bathe in the light of the moon. Spend a few moments absorbing its energy. Take a few more deep breaths, drinking in the clean crisp air. Then say the words, “Moonlight, guide me and help me. Shine upon me and give me strength. Lend me your power and joy. I am devoted to peace and clarity. So mote it be.” Basque in the moonlight, absorbing its strength for as long as you need. When finished, snuff out the candle. Spend the rest of the evening reading and enjoying your tech free activities. Relight your candle every night of the full Cold Moon. … Set a clear bowl of distilled water outside or in a windowsill facing the moon after dusk. Bring it indoors and away from the light of the sun before dawn. Do this each of the three nights of the full moon to charge your moon water. … When you’re ready to relax and restore, enjoy a hot herbal bath and warm cup of herbal tea.